Writing Tips: What to say and write in a sympathy card
Today at my desk, all ready to crank out some work over naps, I paused and thought about someone in my life who is experiencing grief.
I picked out a card from my selection and began to write. I know that blank space can be daunting, and it's hard to put down in words what you're feeling at times.
Here are a few things to consider when sending a card to someone experiencing loss:
My hope is that you experience God's peace. Outside of that, I am here for you when the waves of grief rush in.
I am here for you when your sorrow overwhelms you. When the rush of grief feels too heavy to carry alone. I am also here to point you to the light and joy in your days because you, my friend, are capable and resilient.
I can't begin to understand this type of loss/tragedy. There aren't any rules for your grief, only that you keep breathing, ask the hard questions, and notice the progress you are making.
I was thinking about you today. You are so loved and carried in this season. I have something in your email waiting for you to lessen the burden of making a meal this week.
I like to add stickers to cards. Doesn’t require extra postage, but inspires more joy.
If anything, just send something as you notice your mind wander to someone because there is no timeline to the comfort our words may bring. A friend who is navigating grief let me in on something; when her husband died, there was a flood of support coming in all at once. She was so grateful, but grief is circular, and months down the road can feel lonely. Send that card, that meal, maybe a care package, or call them to share memories even if you feel like too much time has passed.
with joy,
Aneta
Founder + Designer GWJ