The power of snail mail: Things to consider when sending a card
Hope you have a happy birthday!
Thanks for the gifts.
Your joy and gift for pointing other’s to the good inspires me. I am so thankful for you.
Thank you for thinking of me when you gifted me with that amazing journal and pen! You know me. I am more grateful for your thoughtfulness, love and support you show me regularly. Your friendship is the gift.
Which statements fill you up the most?
I’d guess you say the last two, right? So, what makes the different? The first two aren’t inherently bad, but they don’t move past the surface which in some cases and relationships, that may work. If you want to foster meaningful relationships, grow a friendship and build someone up, then the last two are the way to go.
With our phones in hand, we have so many modes of “keeping in contact” with others at our fingertips, but I am learning that those modes miss the mark at times. What makes snail mail impactful and powerful, is that you have to pause to hand pick a card, pen a message, seal it, stamp it and send it off.
Here are a few things to consider when sending a card:
Pause before you write. Think of ways that person has supported you, affirmed you, encouraged you. Think of ways you’ve seen that person grow or ways they’ve served their community that blew you away. Write more than a “happy birthday” or a “thank you”. Your words are a gift they can display and tuck away to treasure.
Add a gift. There are lots of fun ways to personalize the card a bit more. I like to keep a box of gifts handy. I have face masks, temporary tattoos, vinyl stickers, $5 gift cards for coffee. A flat face mask like this, won’t require additional stamps. Most of my list of items won’t. I even like to print photos to slid into someone’s card!
When to send a card? There are the obvious reasons to send a card, but if you want to strengthen relationships, consider the moments of life that may be overlooked. Think a breakup/divorce. Remind them of their strong qualities and how you are there for them to listen as they process or let them know that you’re taking them out for dinner. Think about a friend who has been overwhelmed with life or parenthood. Send them a face mask or $5 for a coffee. Write a card in solidarity: “Parenting has it’s hard days and I am in the thick of it with you. I am forever grateful to be wiping bums, spilt milk and boogers with you! You are an amazing, humble and gracious mom.”
Want to get better at sending more cards? Here are a few things to get you started:
GWJ subscription will keep you stocked up with cards and little extras like stamps, writing prompts, stickers and more.
This perpetual calendar to keep track of birthdays and other memorable dates.
This GWJ one-time JOY box with cards and more if you’re not ready for a subscription.
This gift box to store gifts you purchase from GWJ and other small businesses. This will keep all your thoughtful gifts handy ready to inspire joy and strengthen relationships.
with joy,
Aneta